Make it work.



To all the white girls/boys going to festivals during the summer in headdresses and offensive costumes, I hope you receive the most painful and worst sunburn in your entire life that will remind you to stop being a racist, selfish asshole



oops turns out i forgot to submit that minor assignment how embarassing at least it was only 10% and there’s a 5% quiz for bonus marks that i aced

i have never felt more like my little howl icon right now what the fucking fuck fuck everything

Have I told you about the one time I forgot to hand in an assignment worth 33% and then failed that subject by 3%?


Why do dudes always wanna know your bra size tho, what are they gonna do, buy you bras?? Cause that would be very helpful bras cost a lot of money i would save a fortune

OH BOY I HAVE STORIES about male customers who come in with a bra size and absolutely no other information about what their partner wants (colours, styles, whatever) or even what brands they prefer. Only having a size means nothing. Different labels fit differently. A Lovable 12D is actually more like a 10D/12C in every other system (because they’re a “teen”/”junior” brand so they run small), same as certain Kayser and Bonds styles, and a Pleasure State 12D is actually more like a 14C because their back bands are weirdly long and not stretchy, and Berlei Barely There bras have a very wide wire which means even though they’re true to size, they’ll fit differently to an Elle Macpherson bra of the same size.

Hell, even within the same brand, a balconnet will not fit the same as a triangle bra will not fit the same as a t-shirt bra will not fit the same as a push-up bra will not fit the same as a strapless bra… you get the gist. Shit gets complex quickly.


deep sea mermaids

It is also impossible to persuade an abusive man to change by convincing him that he would benefit, because he perceives the benefits of controlling his partner as vastly outweighing the losses. This is part of why so many men initially take steps to change their abusive behavior but then return to their old ways. There is another reason why appealing to his self-interest doesn’t work: The abusive man’s belief that his own needs should come ahead of his partner’s is at the core of his problem. Therefore when anyone, including therapists, tells an abusive man that he should change because that’s what’s best for him, they are inadvertently feeding his selfish focus on himself: You can’t simultaneously contribute to a problem and solve it. Those abusive men who make lasting changes are the ones who do so because they realize how badly they are hurting their partners and children—in other words, because they learn to care about what is good for others in the family and develop empathy, instead of caring only about themselves.


Lundy Bancroft in Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (2002), p. 361

Also very relevant to attempts to sell feminism to men through claims of how great it will make men’s lives.

(via lonelyapron)

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So a tip for my followers who work retail


Or wait or anything that requires you be on your feet for 6+ hours

Like you know how your feet feel all bruisey on the bottom after work and the pain still won’t be gone by the next morning and you have to deal w/ that pain AND the pain of the day to come

Well like my doctor told me that that bruisey feeling is cause standing on your feet all days causes fluids in your body to pool in your feet

So like at night he told me to elevate my legs with two pillows so the fluids can drain easier or w/e and ho damn.

It helps so much, Jesus Christ. No more limpy mornings.

Idk if this is even new information for y’all but just in case

I care about you

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if you are gonna refer to a trans person as “he-she” or “it”, don’t talk to me, don’t touch me, don’t come near me, don’t breathe the same air as me, don’t breathe at all, thanks



My Beautiful Woman based on a true story. 

Think twice before you judge a parent. 



My cousins the best at snapchat and you can’t convince me otherwise



"How homo is it?" "So."

so many homo



"How homo is it?" "So."

so many homo